Sacred Fire

Mentorship

with Donna Hayes

For the woman who is ready to descend into the wound and rise into herself

A deeply personalised 16-week private transformational journey for courageous, heart-led women ready to transform relationship patterns at their root and create secure, sovereign, soul-aligned relationships.  

You know in your bones that there is more available to you than this.

You've already done the therapy, coaching, healing, personal development, and spiritual work.

This is not your first rodeo.

You know you've outgrown the woman you once were, yet your relationships still haven't caught up with the woman you're becoming.

You understand your patterns.
You know where they came from.
You've learnt the tools.
You've made the changes. 

You know the safety, depth, intimacy, passion, freedom, and security that are possible in relationships.

And yet...

Part of you can't help but wonder...

"Is it possible for me?"

If you've ever found yourself asking,

"What the hell am I missing?"

you're exactly where you're meant to be.

It's not that all you've done to now hasn't helped. 

It's that the core wounds beneath your patterns are still driving how you think, feel, show up, and connect. So you keep ending up in the same experience. 

The emotional hunger. 

The feeling that you're never chosen. 

The questions ringing in your mind

"Why not me?" 

"When is it my turn?" 

"Will it ever happen for me?"

The ache of loneliness from never feeling fully seen, known, cherished, and met.

The frustration of trying again and again, only to find yourself in relationships that still don't nourish you in the ways you long for.

You know the pain.
You know the possibility.
You just don't yet know why it hasn't happened for you.

The Sacred Fire Mentorship™ is a deeply personalised 16-week transformational journey that helps you safely identify and transform those wounds at their root— so you can finally exhale into the love, intimacy, and security you've spent so long wondering were meant for you too.




What Is The Sacred Fire Method™?

The Sacred Fire Method™, is a three step framework, combining psychology, psychotherapy, trauma healing, nervous system regulation, somatic practices, subconscious transformation, shadow work, visualisation, breathwork, and energetic healing, which guides you to safely and effectively learn how to identify the unresolved wounds, dissolve them and their associated patterns, liberate and shift into the women beneath the patterns.

The Sacred Fire practises and container are infused with the frequency that fuels your courage, fierceness, trust, and clarity of when and how to descend into the wounds you have been avoiding.


Therapy can help you understand the pattern.

Coaching can help you change the pattern.

The Sacred Fire Method™ HELPS YOU TRANSFORM THE WOUNDS THAT CREATED THEM. 

Embody the woman who can actually hold the relationships you desire

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SACRED FIRE JOURNEY

a TRANSFORMATIONAL PATH OF HEALING, EMPOWERMENT & EMBODIMENT

Reveal. Descend. Alchemize. Rise. 

Sacred Fire is for YOU if any of these feel true... 

  • You've already done therapy, coaching, healing, personal development or spiritual work, but you just know there's a deeper layer waiting to be transformed.
  • You're intelligent, emotionally aware, heart-led, and deeply committed to your own growth—but you're still struggling to create the relationships you long for.
  • You value both evidence-based psychology and the wisdom of the body, intuition, energy, and soul.
  • You know you are at the threshold of finally experiencing the connections you've longed for, but you just don't know how to actually get there or what's missing. 
  • You are courageous. You've sat with your shadows, and you are willing to dive further into the places within you that you've spent years protecting, because you know that is where the true alchemy and freedom live. 
  • You're SO ready to reclaim and embody the woman who can fully RECEIVE the love she deserves. The kind where you are CHOSEN, CHERISHED, and CELEBRATED for who you are!

That is the work of Sacred Fire. 


What's Included?

  • Weekly 1:1 Live Bespoke Mentoring Sessions with Donna
  • Direct Access to Ongoing Support Between Sessions via Telegram or email
  • Personalised Practices & Transformational Resources
  • Video Lessons, Audio Teachings, & Guided Visualisations
  • Worksheets, Tools & Integration Support
  • Psychology and psychotherapy-informed interventions
  • The Sacred Fire Method™ Framework for Lifelong Transformation
  • Sacred Fire Activation Experience
This deeply personalised mentorship is designed around YOU—your wounds, your patterns, your relationships, your desires, and your unique path forward.
There is no generic advice or one-size-fits-all guidance here.
Every practice, every session, and every step of your journey is tailored with precision to what is actually keeping you stuck, so we transform the core wounds—not just manage the pattern.

Because this work requires someone who knows how to safely guide you into the places you've spent a lifetime protecting, and how to help you emerge from them differently.

That is the depth of expertise I bring—not only from 22 years of professional experience in psychology, psychotherapy, trauma, and human behaviour, but from having walked through the fire myself.

Woman, I know the courage it takes to face the parts of yourself you've spent years avoiding.

I know the level of safety, attunement, and holding this work requires.

And I know the practices that create profound, embodied, lifelong transformation—the kind you've been searching for, but haven't yet been able to fully live.


hEAR FROM THE WOMEN WHO SAID YES...


"It takes great courage not to shrink back into an older version of yourself, and this programme gave me the space and support to do exactly that.

I became aware of how often I would contract within myself and unconsciously adapt who I was to suit another person. Seeing this pattern so clearly was both eye-opening and empowering.

I stopped diluting who I was and began allowing myself to take up space. I no longer felt the need to shrink or make myself smaller for the comfort of others.

One of the greatest lessons I've learned is that true power comes from within. It doesn't come from trying to control or change another person. It comes from knowing and trusting yourself.

I am breaking cycles I never imagined I could break."

Helen, Ireland

I worked with Donna and so much more shifted in my life than I expected.

The most important shift I felt was with my husband. I went from projecting my wounded patterns onto him and into seeing the depth of myself.  I am more deeply in love with my husband than I have ever been.

Having the tools to be able to witness my wounded parts and then shift into my power and heal those wounds brought depth that will forever change my life.

Other relationships in my life have shifted too. I used to play the fixer with everyone I know…. Now I know my place. I know what’s mine to carry. And I know what’s not.

And that has empowered me to hold boundaries that keep feeling so much more in my power and not weighed down by the weight of the world.

The tools Donna taught me, I continue to use daily! I am beyond grateful.

While the work with her shifted how I show up in my relationships with others, it also shifted how I show up in relationship with myself.

I am eternally grateful for Donna, her wisdom, and the depth of healing this work has brought into my life. I truly believe more people need to experience this kind of transformation.

If your considering Sacred Fire or working with Donna, don’t hold back!  You are worthy of witnessing yourself and the power you hold! Sacred Fire Method will forever change your life.

Lena, USA

"What has shifted for me was subtle, but powerful.

I noticed in the relationship with my husband that I was able to articulate more clearly my needs and desires in a way that felt new to me, because my communication came from an empowered place, rather than my wounded self. It was interesting to witness myself: I was direct, I spoke with love, my body felt soft, but I still felt powerful. It wasn’t a destructive power, it was a power that came from a sovereign feminine place, soft and powerful. I didn’t blame or shame. It felt very powerful.

In the Sacred Fire Program I learned to tend to myself first, to look within and soothe the wounded parts first, before I approach my loved ones. Having Donna reflecting back at me what I wasn’t able to catch helped me to understand myself on a deeper level. The shifts didn’t happen on an intellectual level, they were subtle, in my energy body and emotional body.

What I learned is that the Sacred Fire is accessible to me whenever I need it. It’s here and it was always here – I just needed to activate it. Donna's program has helped me to expand my capacities in order to do hard things in life that once maybe left me feeling overwhelmed and stuck.

I would recommend this program to EVERY woman who wants to feel more alive and more connected to herself, her life's purpose and the people around her."

Iunia, Germany

Ready to Descend into the Wound and Rise into Yourself?

Therapy can help you understand the pattern.

Coaching can help you change the pattern.

The Sacred Fire Method™ provides a framework to reveal, descend into, alchemise, and rise beyond the core wounds driving your relationships, behaviours, and life experiences.

So you can create and enjoy the secure, sovereign, soul-aligned relationships you yearn for and deserve. Cause woman, it's time you finally got to enjoy the pleasure of relating. To exhale into it. Soften into it. To feel held, met, and nourished in your depths and desires. 

  • Weekly 1:1 Live Bespoke Mentoring Sessions with Donna
  • Direct Access to Ongoing Support Between Sessions
  • Personalised Practices & Transformational Resources
  • Video Lessons, Audio Teachings & Guided Visualisations
  • Worksheets, Tools & Integration Support
  • The Sacred Fire Method™ Framework for Lifelong Transformation
  •  Sacred Fire Activation Experience
The Sacred Fire Mentorship™ is your invitation to reclaim your power, transform at the root, and rise into the sovereign woman you truly are. The woman who belongs to herself, who is chosen by those who can meet her fully, and is secure in who the fuck she is!

FOUNDING CLIENT INVESTMENT

To celebrate the launch of the Sacred Fire Mentorship, a limited number of Founding Client places are available before the investment increases to the  standard investment.

€4445

€6000

LIMITED PRIVATE CLIENT SPACES AVAILABLE.

I work with a small number of private clients at any one time to ensure every woman receives the depth, support, and attention this work deserves.

Hi , I'm Donna

Holistic psychotherapist.

Founder of the Sacred Fire Method™.

And mum to two daughters who remind me every day why this work matters.

For over 22 years, I've helped people heal the deepest wounds keeping them stuck in painful patterns and relationships. Through that work, I've gained firsthand insight into what creates lasting transformation—and what doesn't.

But Sacred Fire wasn't born from my professional training and experience alone. It was forged through my own willingness to descend into my deepest wounds and journey through trauma, loss, and profound transformation.

Drawing on everything I'd learned through psychology, psychotherapy, trauma work, nervous system healing, energy therapy, Kundalini Activation, and years of spiritual exploration, I created the Sacred Fire Method™.

Today, I guide courageous, heart-led women standing at the threshold of profound transformation to reclaim their feminine power, embody inner sovereignty, and create relationships rooted in self-trust, devotion, authenticity, and freedom.

Because when you heal the core wound, you don't just change your relationships—you transform the way you experience yourself, your life, and the world around you.

 

REVEAL. DESCEND. ALCHEMISE. RISE